rela

Less coordinating. Same Google Calendar.

Your plans,in their calendars.

Keep using Google Calendar. Rela puts the parts you choose into the right people’s own Google Calendars. Practice for the soccer parents. Busy time for work. Fewer updates for you to pass along.

Nothing for them to install or sign up for. No invitations, RSVPs, or notifications.

One afternoon, shared your wayExample

Your Google Calendar

Thursday afternoon. Add plans as usual.

  • 3:30pmMaya: soccer practice
  • 4:15pmBen: piano
  • 5:30pmClient call

Rela: you choose what each group sees

A soccer parent's Google Calendar

Shared with me

  • 3:30pmMaya: soccer practice

    Riverside Field

  • The rest of your afternoon, not shared

The soccer group sees practice. Piano and work stay out.

Everyone needs to know something. Nobody needs to know everything.

A whole Thursday, through three groups’ permissions. Each person sees only their group’s view, in their own Google Calendar.

Dan

Family group

Kids and family plans

Google Calendar · Shared with me

  • 7:45amBen: half dayPickup at 11:30
  • 3:30pmMaya: soccer practiceRiverside Field
  • 4:15pmBen: pianoNeeds a ride
  • 7:00pmDinner at Mom's

The person who shares the driving sees what needs driving to.

Coach Alvarez

Soccer parents group

Just soccer

Google Calendar · Shared with me

  • 3:30pmMaya: soccer practiceRiverside Field

The rest of her day, not shared

The coach sees practice. Not piano, not your mother, not work.

Your team at work

Work group

Just when you're busy

Google Calendar · Shared with me

  • 7:45amBusy
  • 3:30pmBusy
  • 4:15pmBusy
  • 5:30pmBusy
  • 7:00pmBusy

They can find a meeting slot. They cannot see your children's names.

Your Google Calendar. Still your Google Calendar.

  • Keep creating events as usual
  • They keep checking Google Calendar
  • One Shared with me calendar

01 / HOW IT WORKS

Set up the sharing.
Keep making plans as usual.

Rela is a sharing layer for Google Calendar. Your plans stay where they are. You decide who else can see which parts.

01

Choose what each group sees.

Set up groups in Rela, like family, soccer parents, and work. Choose which parts of your schedule each group can see, and whether they get details or just busy time.

02

Keep your calendar exactly as it is.

Create and edit events in Google Calendar as usual. Rela handles sharing according to the permissions you set for each group.

03

It lands in their Google Calendar.

What you share appears in one calendar called Shared with me, alongside their own plans. They do not install anything or sign up for Rela.

02 / WHEN THINGS CHANGE

Seasons end. Teams change. You change one thing.

Permissions belong to groups. Remove someone from a group and every future occurrence shared through it stops being shared with them. Try the switch.

Jess & Marcus

In the soccer group

Practices still to come

Oct 14

Shared

Oct 21

Shared

Oct 28

Shared

Nov 4

Shared

Nov 11

Shared

Nov 18

Shared

Every Tuesday through November, already on their calendar. You added the practices once.

01
“What time is practice again?”
It is already on their Google Calendar, and it moves when you move it. One less update for you to send.
02
Sharing is not inviting.
The coach can see Tuesday practice without becoming a guest on it. No RSVP, no notifications for you to clear, no reply-all.
03
One change, not twelve.
A family leaves the team. Take them off the list and every practice still to come stops being shared. You never open an event.
04
Work does not meet your children.
The same Thursday can be a full schedule for your husband and a plain block of busy time for your colleagues.

03 / CLEAR BOUNDARIES

“I’m busy” doesn’t have to mean “here’s why.”

Being findable is not the same as being an open book. You decide where the line is, for each group of people.

Thursday, 2–4pm. Three ways to share it

Nothing at all.

Nothing on their calendar

The default for everyone you have not decided about. Silence is where Rela starts.

Just that you’re busy.

Busy

Thursday · 2–4pm

Enough for someone to stop asking if you’re free. No title, no place, no names.

The whole plan.

Dr. Reyes follow-up

Thursday · 2–4pm

Medical Arts, Suite 210

Right for the person who shares the driving. Not for everyone.

The same two hours. You decide how much of it is anyone else's business.

Private means private.

An event you mark private in Google Calendar can never be described automatically. Not to the soccer parents, not to family, not to anyone. The most it can ever become is a block of busy time. When Rela is unsure, it shares less.

04 / A FEW GOOD QUESTIONS

A little more
clarity.

RELA

Let some of it
out of your head.

Share the right parts of your Google Calendar. Let them find the plan in their own calendar, without asking you again.